My brother Christopher wanted kids at 28; no interest in them now; he’ll never love them.
My twin was on target at 30; why she loves her boys.
I thought 32. Now, too old….will die without having any children.
Never try to tell someone how to live. And no, no one wants “your kids”. Have them and lie to whom you got ” divorced so they could be your free nanny as step mommy or girlfriend/boyfriend ” you’ll go home to your “good house” to dead children. Our only choice left.